“Don’t Kill me Mom-Dad, please I am your small little daughter“, cries a baby, who has not yet seen daylight.
Sometime in middle of 2006, a shocking and devastating news came out about the discovery of a deep pit in punjab, which contained dead female foeticides, right behind a maternity clinic. No surprise, that the state has one of the poorest male:female ratio. Media did a good job of exposing the racket.
A child is child, irrespective of whether it is he or she. Infact, when you see a puppy, kitten, a cub, baby lizard, you always get the same feeling of CUTE. I fail to understand what runs inside those men and women , who can do such acts of murder? How cold-hearted would they be or how deeply rooted are their beliefs in indian medieval ages? Why do they kill their own daughters, when they can adore about Aishwarya Rai, praise Sania Mirza or vote for Sonia Gandhi. Why is there still a PREFERENCE for the boy child? Why can’t people simply accept that the family name can run with a girl child as well?
I have seen this idiotic mentality with people in my extended family. They are not against having a girl child, but they desperately want a boy child as well. I belong to Gujarat, though. It somehow has been deep-rooted in the psyche of the earlier generations who coupled a girl child’s birth with additional dowry load and no addition to the family income. The thought should have withered away in 21st century, yet it seems, our people are not going to learn so easily. The government on its part has not been successful in educating the masses. Somehow, the government is also unable to properly enforce the law banning sex-detection tests.
A journalist infact titles an article on the issue as “Female foeticide or genocide?”.
The child sex ratio, which was 945 girls in 1991, is reduced to to 927 in 2001. The situation is worst in North India, especially in Punjab and Delhi. Gujarat and Tamil Nadu are as well not in a good shape.
But positive steps have started both at the government and social level
1)Newly wed couples in Gujarat are taking vows that they will never commit female foeticide.
2)Gujarat CM Narendra Modi, thought largely infamous on secular grounds, has infact been a leading a mission to educate the girl children of the state. A step in the right direction.
3)Government is modifying the laws to make the enforcement more transparent and responsible. “SAVE THE GIRL CHILD” is a govt. campaign that is working.
4)2006 has been a year, when the mainstream media has taken up the cause of girl child.
5)Loads of NGO’s are becoming active on this front.
6)Finally, we bloggers have taken note of this and shouting on high-pitch to the enlightened urban youth to do something about it.
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I am not against abortion as a result of unsafe sex or unplanned child, but definitely yes I am against sex-selective abortion.
“Population Control is necessary, and within that population balance between the gender is equally important.”
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Folks, SAVE THE GIRL CHILD, save our sons from regretting the death of their sisters.